Side by side sex positions
For men: In all the surveys of the most
popular sex positions, side by side sex comes way down the list. Maybe this is
because it's actually quite difficult to get your penis into a woman's vagina
when you're lying side by side!
 For
one thing, it's a lot easier if you actually have a large penis: if you have,
you can maneuver into the correct position without too much difficulty. If
you're on the less well-endowed side, then arranging yourselves so that
penetration is smooth and elegant is more challenging!
 The
way to approach side by side sex is to first decide if you are going for a
frontal or a rear approach - either is possible, and both have their advantages
and disadvantages.
Penetration from the rear in this sexual position
gives you the ability to fondle her breasts and clitoris during sex, as well as
have the pleasure of her buttocks nestle into your testicles as you make love -
a very satisfying experience.
 It
also allows you to see the enjoyable sight of your penis entering your partner's
body - which can be extremely exciting and arousing (though it might make you
come too quickly!)
 Having
said that, if you can achieve penetration and find a comfortable position, this
is potentially a very satisfying sexual position. It's important to note that
even though websites like this one offer all kinds of advice and suggestions
about how you might enjoy sex more, what actually counts more in the end is the
enjoyment and pleasure you get from sex, regardless of the position! (And please
do read the text below, because the frontal side by side position is very good
for men who tend to come quickly - it prolongs intercourse, because there's less
pressure on your penis in this position, yet the orgasm you'll eventually enjoy
is just as satisfying it is in the man on top position.)
For women: Although it is not illustrated
above, the frontal side by side position - where you can look at each other,
lying on your sides chest to chest, facing each other - can be more enjoyable
than the slightly less intimate position shown above: unless, of course, you are
looking for a good, hard bout of boisterous sex, in which case the position
shown in the photographs above may be more to your taste!
The frontal side by side sex position, is a
position in which to enjoy slow, romantic and loving sexual intercourse. To get
into this position, the easiest way is to start from the man on top missionary
position. Decide which way you are going to roll over onto your sides, and then
move the leg which will be underneath your man and you when you have rolled over
upwards so that your combined weight when you roll over to that side will be
positioned on your thigh. Then, simply roll over without withdrawing his penis
from your vagina, and you have a perfectly relaxing position for sex: you can
look each other in the eyes, caress closely or separate your upper bodies so
that he can admire your breasts (and give them the attention they deserve!).
To add to the romance of this position, you can
kiss and caress each other, stroking each other's buttocks, back and chests as
you wish, with the added advantage that you can each reach down and play with
his penis and balls as well as your vulva and clitoris, as he thrusts into and
out of your vagina. The feel of his penis sliding in and out of your vagina, wet
with your juices, pushing into you as deeply as he can go, is a tremendously
exciting one!
All in all, this sexual
position is an exciting and satisfying one, and it deserves to feature
more highly on people's lists of favorites than it does. |
