More about man on top sex positions
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the bread and butter of sex for most couples: the good old man on top
position. You might call it sex as nature intended (unless that description
better fits rear entry sex!)
But most couples will be familiar with
variations of the man on top position as a staple of their sex life.
In the photo shown above, the woman has her legs
back, with her knees near her chest. This allows deeper penetration, which
can be physically and emotionally satisfying for both partners.
deep penetration is so fulfilling for a man, his partner may enjoy giving
him the chance to get deep into her vagina by raising her legs as shown in
more detail here.
This can be very satisfying for her too,
especially if she enjoys the sensations of being "taken" by her man: many
women report that they feel safe, protected and secure while enjoying sex in
the man on top position.
For men who have difficulty reaching orgasm and
ejaculating, i.e., men who have inhibited ejaculatory responses and need
some kind of treatment for delayed ejaculation, this sex position may be
helpful since it provides comparatively more pressure on the man's penis
than some other positions (such as side by side sex) and may therefore give
him the greatest chance of reaching orgasm during intercourse.
is, of course, equally possible for the woman to wrap her legs around her
This can give him a delightful sense of being
trapped, unable to get away, and thus feeling certain that his partner
really wants him to ejaculate inside her, which she may see as the ultimate
symbol of their love and commitment to each other.
In addition, when he brings his body forward and
upwards along his partner's body, he has much more chance of being able to
stimulate her clitoris with the base of his penis as he moves in and out of
This can help her to reach orgasm, something
that is often not possible for a woman from vaginal thrusting alone.
an added thrill, he can kneel up and see his penis moving in and out of his
partner's body as he thrusts.
She has the pleasure of feeling wanton, and
enjoying the sense of her sexual power and attractiveness as she watches him
appreciating the opening of her vulva and the sight of his penis entering
this delightful close-up, the pleasure of the woman as she reaches orgasm is
intensified by her legs being raised, which tightens the muscles of her
vagina and pelvic region.
By the way, she has reached orgasm through
manual stimulation of her clitoris - which simply means that as her partner
enjoyed thrusting, he was also giving her pleasure by playing with her
clitoris with his fingers.
beautiful shot shows one way of achieving the deepest penetration - by
raising her legs to the utmost, he can thrust deeply into her.
However, if he is well-endowed, he needs to be
careful not to catch her cervix, which can be painful.
Our male model in these photos has a penis which
is rather larger than average and he reports that he can touch his partner's
cervix during sex in the man on top sexual position.
She says that she experiences this as
pleasurable when she is extremely aroused; otherwise it can be
is important for the man to remember that his partner is likely to enjoy
being touched all over her body, and he should not neglect to stroke, kiss,
and caress her body as they make love.
This is an easy position for him to reach her breasts and kiss her....
fact which he demonstrates in this position.
The act of giving herself to a man may
hold a very special symbolic importance to a woman; so sex can be a
much more emotional experience for her than for him (though that is by
no means always the case).
An element of romantic play, such as
kissing her in her sensitive spots, as shown above, is always
enjoyable for a woman.
She may also wish to feel him as deep
inside her as he can get, and to help him thrust deep into her vagina,
she may pull him in towards her with her legs around his back or her
hands on his thighs or buttocks.
most loving and romantic embrace hints at great emotional connection between
the partners as they make love.
passion rises, the speed of man on top sex may get faster. If the man raises
himself off her body on his hands and arms he will be better placed to enjoy
the sight of his partner as he thrusts in and out of her vagina.
in turn, can enjoy the sight of her man reaching a most powerful
Man on top sex positions are good for the man because his thrusting
and somewhat dominant position over his partner contribute to his
arousal, increase the tension in his body before he comes, and enhance
the sensations of release when he actually ejaculates.
this picture, both partners are enjoying watching his penetration of
Men are very visual
beings, and are usually very turned on by watching sex (whether this
involves themselves or other people!)
shows that man on top sex need never be dull; there are many ways in
which the man can enhance the experience while he thrusts.
Touching and being
touched is likely to be more important to her than to him, though this
is not always the case.
although this may take a little more skill and practice, the position
adopted here by our models means that her vagina will be significantly
tighter than when she is simply lying on her back, which will give
both of them different sensations and greater pleasure.
Unfortunately he may come
more quickly because the exquisite sensations of warmth, wetness and
pressure on his penis are that much greater.
Many women find it
especially sexy to see or hear his balls slapping against her vulva as
he thrusts, and most men will find the sight of her bottom an added
There is the added
eroticism of being able to play with her anus, buttocks or clitoris as
enough, the tighter she holds her legs together, the tighter her
vagina will become, and the more exquisite the sensations will be for
women find it extremely exciting to have their man slap (gently, that
is) his penis against her clitoris as shown here.
the very athletic, trying to get her legs over his shoulders can be
very entertaining when you're having sex in the man on top position!
If you can get both her
legs over one or both of your shoulders, you'll be rewarded with some
very interesting sensations.
But it's difficult to
do, and you may find it more pleasurable to try something like the
position in the photo shown below:
gives both partners access to her clitoris and anus.
If she finds it
difficult to reach orgasm with clitoral stimulation from her own or
the man's fingers, this position is also good for the use of a
It also allows the use
of a vibrator.
is a good example of how a woman can play with her clitoris as he
thrusts, so giving herself a chance of reaching orgasm while his penis
is inside her.
This may be much more
satisfying for her.
What's more, the
contractions of her vagina around his penis are likely to make him
come, thus giving the couple the possibility of a simultaneous orgasm.
an interesting variation on man on top sex, just as he begins to ejaculate,
he can withdraw and come on his partner's vulva.
This is an exciting and sexy variation on man on
top sex which a couple can enjoy occasionally.