A Guide to Erotic Sex in The Face to Face, Man
on Top Sexual Position
Face to face sexual positions with the woman
supine, that is, on her back, are the first choice of the large majority of
women.
Two main explanations exist. The first is that women like it because it
feels right, natural and safe. At least as important, though, is that in this
position the pressure on the clitoris is at its greatest.
The hard ridge of bone
across the abdomen above the root of the penis (called the pubic bone) presses
against the area of the clitoris. It presses it against it the male pubic hair,
and in and out movements alternately pull and relax the labia and with them the
hood of the clitoris. It is this pressure and rubbing that is so rewarding.
Also, the penis, especially of younger men, stands not only out but up. In most
women it is the front (anterior) wall of the vagina that is the most sensitive.
When she is lying on her back, especially with her thighs down and a pillow
under her hips, the probing penis presses hardest and most pleasurably against
this wall.
During intercourse it is a good idea to reach
down, pull the labia apart in front to expose the clitoris more completely then
put the weight fully down upon it keeping the labia from coming together again.
As she approaches her orgasm he can lift his feet
and lower legs or even with practice, his knees and thighs. By gripping hard
around her shoulders or on a convenient bed edge, he can ride her such that the
lowest part of him touching anything is his pubic bone.
The pressure in this sexual position is great and often appreciated. But
try it gently until you're sure of your partner's feelings. Somebody said that
you can define a gentleman as someone who always takes the weight on his elbows.
By no means all women prefer this. Many a girl
enjoys a man's weight on her. It's all a matter of preference.
Face to face sexual positions have other advantages.
There is someone to talk to if that's what you like. There are breasts to look
at and play with, though this is not always easy when lying down.
Vision however
tends to be limited and if seeing things is important then side by side sex may
be more successful. By kneeling up and spreading her legs wide he can get a
better view down onto his penis as it penetrates her. His extended hands can
grasp and fondle her breasts.
Variations in the angle of penetration can be
achieved by the size and position of a pillow under her. Under her buttocks it
tilts her pelvis up, under the small of her back it tilts it down.
He should
never forget, whichever way he has penetrated, that he can make the penis touch
different spots in the vagina by changing the angle of his hips and the angle at
which he thrusts into her. He can also grasp the base of his penis in his hand
and move it accordingly.
Also, if kneeling up he can additionally stimulate her
clitoris rather than rub it with his pubic bone. Lifting her thighs at varying
degrees - right up until her ankles are beside her ears (be gentle until you
know how far they'll go) - also changes the degree of pressure against different
parts of the inside of the vagina.
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