Sex Positions 

The best sexual positions and the finest lovemaking techniques!

Sex Position 4 - Man penetrates his partner from behind - rear entry sex, also known as doggy style (doggie style)

A lot of women find sex in this position very exciting. There's something incredibly primal about it which adds to the thrill of it. But not only does this position excite many women, it can be a real thrill for men, too, who often find it is the most arousing position in their sexual repertoire. Rear entry sex is so exciting because it allows deep penetration and gives a feeling of "being taken" (for women) or "taking" your partner (for men), but mostly because it's simply more raunchy than romantic.

There are many ways to enjoy rear entry sex, so why not ring the changes and see which you enjoy most? You can have the woman lying on the bed, with the man lying on top of her (or, if the man's penis is flexible and long enough, he can kneel on the bed with one leg each side of her thighs and direct his penis into her vagina from behind and above). Alternatively, have the women kneeling on all fours, with the man kneeling behind her, or, if she is on the edge of the bed, the man can stand behind her. Lastly, the woman can simply stand up and bend forwards to give her partner access to her vagina.

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Advantages Of Rear Entry Sex

If you are a woman who likes G spot stimulation, rear entry is a great way to get the sexual pleasure and physical excitement of the pressure of your partner's penis against this highly sensitive area of your vagina. This stimulation is all about the angle of the man's penis in the vagina. Unfortunately rear entry sex is so exciting that many men come very quickly - the sight of themselves banging their partner's buttocks as they thrust, together with the sight of their penis entering and withdrawing from their partner is just too erotic for them to last a long time before they ejaculate!

It can also be very exciting to enjoy rear entry sex in front of a mirror so you can see exactly what is happening as you make love. This may increase a man's arousal and help him to ejaculate quickly - which is useful when he needs added stimulation to reach orgasm quickly. This might be worth trying if the man has delayed ejaculation. This is a condition in which men cannot ejaculate at all during sex, or can only ejaculate with great difficulty. This may sound strange, when premature ejaculation is so rampant among male lovers, but it's certainly no joke for a man who has the problem. It's also known as retarded ejaculation, which aptly describes exactly how the problem manifests, in that intercourse can last for hours, should the couple be determined enough, and the man still won't be able ejaculate. There is a cure, however, where delayed ejaculation is described in detail and the options for treatment are also explained.

Sex Position 5 - Standing Sex

Sometimes it's just great to try something a bit different in your sex life - and standing sex positions certainly qualify on that count. You might not want to use a standing position for sex very often, but once in a while it can be a real thrill! If you have the woman standing against the wall and the man standing in front of her, you'll be safest - those acrobatic positions where he lifts her under her buttocks and supports her while the couple fuck, may seem exciting, but few men have the strength to carry this off, and if she falls while the man's penis is inside her, the resultant injury for his penis can be pretty bad. Having said that, standing sex is very good for a hot, passionate session of urgent sex when you just have to have it now, as it requires few clothes to be removed....you can just unzip trousers, raise the woman's skirt, slip her underwear aside, and you're bang on target. Hundreds more superb sex positions!

Standing sex lends itself to sex in the broom cupboard or the stairwell, and the added urgency of sex in a semi-public place, where there's a chance of discovery, certainly adds to the excitement and urgency of the occasion. This is hot sex; it may not be romantic, but it certainly has power, and it can be a real thrill that brings a couple closer. (Try this out, then next time you make love in a more conventional setting, see if it's more romantic, passionate and loving than before.)

If you have a height difference, you might need to find some way of making your heights more equal - and if one of you is standing on something, make sure it won't fall over when things get frenzied!

Sex Position 6 - Sitting Sex and Kneeling Sex

This is all about making sex fun, using sex positions which feel unusual or exciting, and which can offer an unusual twist in the routine of your sex life. They aren't positions where you can move much, but you can certainly have fun trying out all the variations you can think of! And because you are facing each other in such an intimate situation, kissing and bodily contact are easy to achieve.

How to enjoy sitting sex and standing sex positions easily

There are many possibilities for sitting sex. If you have a chair without arms, she can sit facing him on his lap with his penis inside her; she can even sit sideways on if his penis will comfortably fit inside her in this orientation. An enjoyable and sexy option is for him to start sex by kneeling between her legs as she sits on the edge of a chair, offering her cunnilingus. After she has reached her orgasm, he can enter her, while facing her, kneeling, as she remains seated.

Many of these positions allow the woman to adjust the tightness of her vagina by moving her legs closer together or further apart. And it's easy to move into the man on top position if you wish to make love in a more familiar way when you've had enough novelty!

 Sitting sex positions are also good for a woman who is pregnant.

Vaginal Muscles - mostly for women!

Having a healthy (for which read fit and strong) PC muscle is a good idea because it determines how much sensation your man will feel when he enters you - as well as how much pressure you can put on his penis, and this in turn will have a major bearing on how much enjoyment both he and you get from intercourse. The things that make sex great for a man are tightness, wetness, and warmth. This is mainly a physical experience of pleasure, though the psychological aspects of penetration, thrusting and "taking" his partner are also very important. The things that make sex great for a woman are the feeling of closeness, the intimacy, the sense of being penetrated and the feeling of fullness - so sex may be a more psychological based pleasure than it is for a man.

However, you'll see that for the man to get more pleasure from sex, you need to be able to contract your vaginal muscles. This gives him a feeling of tightness all down the length of his penile shaft, not just as he enters you. Of course, as sex proceeds, and you become more aroused, your vagina may "balloon" or "tent", and you may become more wet, so that sensations of friction diminish somewhat. This is rather different to simply not being able to tighten your muscles in the first place!

There are various products available to tighten the vaginal muscles, most notably the Kegelmaster. But you can establish if you need help in this department by putting one or two fingers into your vagina, then tightening the muscles around them as though you were trying to stop the flow of your urine. The broader and tighter the band, the fitter your PC muscle - if it feels like a thin band closing around your fingers, you need to do some fitness training! I think it's fair to say that it can be a fairly disappointing experience for a man when he enters a woman and her vagina is simply loose all the way up, tight only around the entry.

Not coming through intercourse is common

It is unusual for women to be able to reach orgasm through intercourse. it is, in fact, the exception rather than the rule. Even so, as we hinted above, intercourse can feel great for a woman, for both physical and psychological reasons. Keeping a fit PC muscle is a good way to make intercourse feel better. However, simply squeezing your PC muscles a few times a day isn't enough - for full fitness and greater sexual pleasure, you need to exercise it against some kind of resistance. That's why the Kegelmaster is so good for this - it has a variable resistance for you to adjust as you develop strength in your PC muscle.

When you have developed a fitter and stronger PC muscle, his penis will feel fuller inside of you. It hasn't grown, though - it's your PC muscle which has bulked up and strengthened out, so giving you both greater pleasure during sexual intercourse.

You can also use other accessories for tightening up the muscles in this part of your body! For example, you can get stones made of marble or metal to insert into your vagina. To keep them inside you as you walk around requires some fitness on the part of the vaginal muscles, so you may wish to start with the lightest and work up to the heaviest. (It's potentially embarrassing if they drop out of your vagina unexpectedly!)

Good tips hints for making love

If you aren't already sure which sex positions are most comfortable and easiest for you, and indeed which you actually prefer the most, get a dildo which is about the same size as your partner's penis and try it out. (Don't forget to try thrusting as you might in real life, and try different sex positions so you can get a good idea of which give you the greatest pleasure.)

If you feel pain or discomfort, try using more lube, but avoid anything containing the spermicide Nonoxynol-9 as it can be quite irritating. It's also possible for a man to hit his partner's cervix with his penis, since the vagina is not especially long, so be cautious with the sex positions which offer deeper penetration.

Flowback - the expulsion of semen from the vagina after intercourse - can happen anything from a few minutes to several hours later. If it flows out during the day (if you've made love in the morning) or night (ditto at night), you may want to use a panty liner.

And when all is said and done, remember that what makes sex really great isn't just knowing about good sex positions (though that does help!) but connecting emotionally and possibly spiritually with your partner. And, of course, releasing your inhibitions and allowing your primal instincts to take over is a pretty good way to enjoy sex to the full!