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the best position for you Sex positions for men with a small penisObviously the problem with having a small penis is that you can't get deep penetration as easily as men who have a large penis. But is this really a problem? Well, that depends on your point of view: deep penetration is very satisfying and can produce profoundly fulfilling sensations for men; some women like it, especially if they're stimulated by having your penis touch their cervix. (Though some women find this painful, for others it's the key to a powerful orgasm.) If you do want the pleasure of plumbing her depths, then there are several positions that can help you get deeper into her. Doggy style or rear entryThere's no danger of falling out of her in the doggy position even if you have a small penis, provided you position yourselves correctly and comfortably. This means adjusting your respective heights (e.g. you stand on something, she raises or lowers her bottom) so you have easy and smooth access to her vulva. You get the enjoyable sight of her rear end, you get deep penetration, and you can good pressure on your penis if she keeps her legs together and/or lowers her head and neck onto a pillow while keeping her bottom raised. Woman lies face down and man enters her from behindThe woman lies face down on her belly and keeps her legs together, as you kneel, your knees outside her legs, one on each side of her, ready to enter her. For you to get into her in the first place she may have to open her legs a bit more, but once you're in she can close them, which will produce good sensations for you both. It's often helpful if she places a pillow under her pelvis, so that her hips are raised. You'll find you can then enter her more easily. She lies on her back and raises her legsIn fact, she may raise her legs right back so that her knees are on her chest, her ankles around her ears. This opens her vulva to your gaze, and allows you to penetrate her easily and deeply. She lies on her back and you hold her legs in a V-formation The starting position for this is that she lies on her back and you enter her from a semi-kneeling position. Then you hold her ankles and raise them into a V formation, holding her legs up and apart. You can thrust deeply, but it does take some flexibility to do this. Man on top with her pelvis tilted upwards with a pillow under her bottom This is a very good one for deep penetration and thrusting by the man. However, as in all these positions, it's important to remember that even though women may be turned on by the sight of a large penis, they often don't particularly want one inside them. The secret of sexual success is to get her really aroused before you enter her, and then to snuggle close and deep, kissing her as you penetrate her as deeply as possible. This s the ultimate romantic, sexy and loving embrace. Although many women find big penises visually stimulating, most admit that they wouldn't like to have one inside them. So don't feel insecure if your penis is below average; there are so many ways you can make up for it as a lover. The truth about small penis size is interesting - and one that many men who find themselves in this position find hard to accept. That is, for most women, the size of a guy's penis is well down the list of things which are important to them in a relationship. Now, don't get me wrong, I don't want to sound like an apologist for men who have smaller than average endowments, because I do know that many women like to look at men's bodies, and they also like to see a penis which is visually stimulating because of its size. Sure! We all have a natural curiosity like this. But maybe the point which men miss here is that this is no different to men finding large breasts attractive - and there are only a very few men for whom this would be a determining factor in whether or not they had a relationship with the woman concerned! This logic is even more true for women, whose values of a potential partner include factors such as loyalty, honesty, reliability, commitment, strength and compassion. Though women like to look at bodies, they aren't that important a factor in deciding whether or not to form a relationship. But of course, that leaves open the question of what this means in practice if you happen to be a man with a small penis, and you lack confidence in sexual relationships because of it. For one thing, it may seem alike a major effort every time you want to go to bed with a woman - and the psychological barrier to intimacy of a small penis, blocking your moves towards sexual intimacy because you fear the eventual outcome of being naked with a woman, can seem insurmountable. It's to be hoped that hearing the words over and over again - "It doesn't matter to a woman" - may help you to overcome your problems. But ultimately there is no choice but to leap in, as it were, to take the plunge towards sexual intimacy. You can forewarn your partner - "I have some shyness round my dick, because I've always felt it's a bit smaller than average" - which, to be truthful, may be honest but isn't likely to garner you much admiration. Or you can find a way of giving her great pleasure, so she sees you as a wonderful lover and the size of your cock pales into insignificance behind that fact. So my suggestion to you is this: become an expert at cunnilingus. Show her that your only concern is for her orgasm and for her pleasure. Give her head before you even think about penetration. You'll find that she appreciates you more for this than for any other aspect of your lovemaking skills. Oral sex, let me repeat, for many women, is much more rewarding than intercourse. Sexual intercourse may give a woman a feeling of connection and intimacy, but if you're a thoughtful man, you can give her the feeling of intimacy and connection by listening and being present with her at any time, while her sexual pleasure comes from cunnilingus. See the advice we have to offer on cunnilingus here. Also, if you're a man with a small penis, you might like to read this page for more information on sexual positions.
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