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Positions for fast,
You might think that all sex positions
are created equal, but in fact they're not! For example, when passion
overtakes you and your sex just has to be fast and furious, you need a
position that allows you to thrust hard and fast.
You couldn't do this in a kneeling
position, for that requires a careful balancing act, while sitting sex
positions and most variations of woman on top will restrict the man's
movements so much that fast thrusting becomes impossible for him (though
of course a woman has much greater freedom of movement when she's on
Intense sex isn't just confined to the
first weeks or months of attraction to your partner, though that's when
it's most common.
This is the kind of sex that demands
instant satisfaction without foreplay; it's all about rapid pleasure,
fast action, and powerful orgasms.
If desire hits both you and your partner
at the same time, then fine: if not, you can convey the urgency of your
desire to your partner in a way that will turn them on - for example, a
woman can leave a trail of clothes leading to the bedroom, the last item
being her underwear, provocatively placed outside the bedroom door.
And a man can press up against his lover
so that she feels the hardness of his desire expressing how much he
wants to make love to her.
Another powerful signal men can use is
the male sexual gaze - the kind of gaze that says to a woman, "You're
mine, I'm going to take you, penetrate you, make love to you and make
you come!" Many times, this will make a woman go weak at the knees with
excitement and anticipation!
It's also important to act on these
desires when they arise. It may seem self-indulgent to drop what you're
doing and have sex, especially if you're in a long-term relationship,
but by doing so, you can refresh yourself and your relationship. Not
acting on the desire to make love when it develops can be unhealthy for
you - and your relationship.
So, the question is, "which sex
positions are most suited to fast, urgent, passionate sex, which probably means fast
1 Rear entry standing
probably the one most people associate with fast, "quickie" sex -
it's easy, simple and very arousing.
You don't even have to get
undressed, for if the woman is wearing a skirt, she can flip it up
and move her underwear aside, while her partner can just pull out
his erect penis and thrust straight into her.
It's easier if the man holds his
partner round the waist as they enjoy sex: once he has her
supported in this way, she can also thrust herself back and forth
along the length of his shaft, but getting a good rhythm going can
be challenging. (A good reason, perhaps, to practice more!)
to the theme of rear entry, this position is likely to be exciting
and arousing - it can feel very wicked!
Once again, the woman need not undress fully: she can flip up her
clothes and present herself to her man - he has a thrilling view
of her buttocks as he enters her.
A great position for fast sex - but perhaps the danger is that in
the man will ejaculate very quickly through sheer
excitement, and sex will be over quite quickly.
2 Sitting positions suitable for fast
position, either as shown here, or with the man standing (in which case
the woman keeps her legs in exactly the same position as shown on the
left) is recommended in the Kama Sutra for
If the man is standing, he needs to lean
back against a solid surface to get some support.
It can be a tiring position, and it's not
a good idea to try it if you feel you might not be able to keep it up -
if the couple collapse, her weight bending his penis down can seriously
To get good, fast sex, the man can move
his partner back and forth along his penis as he thrusts - or his
partner can thrust herself as he remains still.
3 Standing sex
position is one which can be used for passionate sex, though it may work
better if the man stands more upright and the woman wraps her leg around
However, when there is a height
difference between the partners, it may easier for the woman to stand on
the first tread of a staircase while he stands on the ground.
If he has the strength to lift her
completely off the ground, she can wrap her legs around him and hold
onto him around his neck with her arms, thereby supporting herself and
allowing her to thrust vigorously against her man. He can also help her
by supporting her around her buttocks.
4 Other ideas for
all couples will be flexible enough to have sex in the position
shown on the left. It also requires a man to have a fairly long
There are many variations of the
position which can offer great pleasure, most of which involve the
woman placing her feet against her man's chest or raising them
over his head.
When he grasps her round the thighs,
as shown in the picture on the right, he can thrust hard and
Another highly enjoyable variation is the
"edge of the bed" one shown in the photograph to the left. This
allows fast and powerful thrusting, as well as deep penetration and
intimate connection between the lovers.
Finally, note that in any
vigorous sex, you may need to choose
a lubricant for
intercourse to help you cope with the vigorous thrusting and
avoid having a sore G spot area next day!
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